AKSHITHA
CSE – 1, I Year
We live in a world that demands perfection. Maybe that’s why adults laugh off in front of others and cry like a kid when they are finally alone. In a world where the pursuit of perfection often dominates, it is easy to overlook the beauty and value of imperfection. In a society that often rewards conformity and sameness, it can be difficult to stand out and be vulnerable. There is still a stigma attached to imperfections, no matter whether they are physical, mental, or something intimate and personal. It takes courage and resilience to embrace our flaws and share them with others, especially where perfection is valued above everything else.
Perfection is an illusion constructed by societal standards and our self-imposed expectations. We strive for an unattainable ideal, chasing an ever-elusive state of flawlessness. However, the pursuit of perfection often leads to anxiety, self-doubt, and an endless cycle of comparison. We forget that true growth lies in embracing us as flawed beings and learning from our mistakes.
Another stigma that I did not know about until I read about it the other day while researching the topic is that embracing imperfections is seen as a sign of weakness. I don’t really relate how this is related to weakness because I rather see it as a strength that allows us to live more fully and authentically. Like what more can affect a person after you’ve fully and wholeheartedly accepted yourself? Let us embrace our imperfections and celebrate the beauty of being imperfectly human. Moreover, do we really wish to look like Barbie and Thor? Or do we really wish we had the minds of pre-robots? No, right? The standards of being perfect constantly keep changing. Do we really want to keep up with those standards?
One of the biggest obstacles to embracing imperfections is the societal pressure to be perfect. From the media to social media, we are bombarded with images and messages that portray a flawless and idealized version of reality. This constant pressure to measure up to an unattainable standard can be damaging to our self-esteem and mental well-being. Once we start acknowledging our imperfections, we are more likely to understand and accept the imperfections of others. This sense of empathy and connection can deepen our relationships and create a stronger sense of community and belonging.
One of the key figures who have spearheaded the movement of embracing imperfections inside out is Brené Brown, a research professor at the University of Houston who has dedicated her career to studying vulnerability, courage, and shame. I came across this when I was scrolling for my English internals. Brown’s groundbreaking TED Talks and bestselling books, such as “The Gifts of Imperfection” and “Daring Greatly,” have inspired countless individuals to embrace their vulnerabilities and imperfections as sources of strength and authenticity.
Also, there’s another famous story I read. The art of Japanese Kintsugi, where broken pottery is repaired with gold, silver, or platinum lacquer. Instead of disguising imperfections, Kintsugi celebrates them, highlighting the cracks and fractures as part of the object’s history and beauty. Similarly, the concept of the unfinished masterpiece encourages us to view our own lives and creations through a lens of acceptance and appreciation for their inherent imperfections.
Embracing imperfections is a fundamental aspect of living a fulfilling and authentic life. As human beings, we are fallible and imperfect creatures, and it is important to acknowledge and accept this truth in order to grow and evolve as individuals. So, what if math isn’t your best hand? Accept it! Maybe you’re good at art. Another common misperception is that when people think of imperfections it’s usually about the physical features, especially women. No, it includes the continuous thoughts of constantly thinking ill about your personality traits as well. What if you’re short-tempered? A calm person can handle you. What if you’re talkative? That’s the exact kind of person that helps an introvert. You are what you are for a reason and I wish everyone just realize that.
Imperfections offer us a way to connect with others. We all do have best friends around whom we can be our own flawed imperfect selves. It’s those imperfections that bring you together and strengthen your bond. So, embrace your imperfections and flaws. By doing so you will be creating some rare genuine connections.
So finally, let me just remind you, that you’re perfect and you should know you’re worth it. No one could take your place and no you don’t have to change. Embrace yourself and not the negativity. You’re unique and that’s the way to be. Love yourself because there’s only one of you anyone who disagrees, hasn’t got a clue!
